Saturday, June 22, 2013

How to Advise Parents grandson Prophet

Syayyidina Hasan and Syaiyyidina Husain once saw someone being ablution. Unfortunately, the way the person is not perfect ablution, not in accordance with his religious beliefs. 

Grandson of the Prophet's second king being a teenager was also thinking about how to correct them wisely. They do not want to offend his advice and hope the message can be accepted gracefully. 


One of them finally told the man, "O my uncle, my brother and me different opinions about which one of us is the most correct and nice way wudhunya. We ask our uncle to judge, who is best wudhunya! " 


The man agreed. Hasan and Husayn and then perform ablution while he watched carefully one by one, accompanied by a sense of admiration for the way the two children referred ablution. At that time, he was lucky to get a hands-on lesson of the two boys. Slowly growing awareness that he had made a mistake. 


After Hasan and Husayn finish "race purification ritual" it was time to decide the winner. "Wudu you two very special," the man said with a smile as if to say thank you. 


There is no winner. Indeed, the aim is not to find a winner. 


Whatever the situation, counsel advising an essential principle in religion. Unfortunately, this principle is getting faded, because many people are "heavy" advising others and there are many people who feel "heavy" to receive advice. 


Apparently, it takes the right tips to deliver advice, and should not always be expressed explicitly, as did two youths of Paradise earlier. The format may not advise even implicitly implies a piece of advice. 


I remember while studying at one of the madrasah in Jakarta. At that time I do not understand why any one would home school our teacher asked all the students to close the lesson by reading the "Al-Asr". Apparently the companions of Rasul SAW, Successors and later generations have a habit of ending their assemblies or meetings by reading the letter. 


Surat al-Asr containing the declaration of human loss, except those who believe, do righteous deeds, exhort one another counsel in the truth and exhort one another to patience counsel. 

 
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